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Ups and downs

You should receive this e-mail about fourteen weeks after your quitting date.
 
Hello!

Sometimes you’re pleased with yourself. You feel rock-solid and have the impression that nothing could shake your determination to live smoke-free. At other times, you feel your motivation waver, the temptation to smoke is stronger and you’re afraid you won’t be able to stay focused on your goal. Does this sound like you?

 
 

The highs and lows of a smoke-free life

Fears that undermine your motivation

On-line community

Tip of the week
Use symbolic gestures to get rid of the obstacles and fears that drain your motivation:

Melt them away! Make ice cubes and take an empty jar. Each time you feel your motivation faltering, take an ice cube and let it melt in the jar. You’ll see that even as you fill your jar with water from melted ice cubes, there’s not enough to drown your determination.

Reduce them to ashes! When you go through a period of wavering motivation, describe it on a little piece of paper and then burn the paper. Save the ashes in a jar. Don’t let these little piles of ashes bury your motivation.

Invent your own ritual. The important thing is to be able to say, “Good riddance to bad rubbish!”

 
     
 

The highs and lows of a smoke-free life

Many different factors, which vary from person to person, can explain highs and lows in motivation when you quit smoking. For instance,

  • Increased stress can lower your motivation, especially if you have long viewed smoking as a “refuge” from nervousness and anxiety. Learning to relax and calling upon your support network are your best strageties against stress.
  • Events in your social life might influence your level of motivation. For example, vacations, the holidays and going out with friends increase the temptations. Be more vigilant during these times and prepare yourself accordingly.
  • Some people are prone to mood swings, emotional highs and lows and fluctuating energy levels. If this applies to you, it’s natural for the quitting process to be affected the same way as other aspects of your life. To better prevent these fluctuations, observe when and why they happen. If they are significant, you can talk to your doctor about them.

To explore the causes of your emotional roller coaster, make two columns in your diary and label them “Things that reinforce my motivation to live smoke-free” and “Things that reduce my motivation.”

Does your motivation need a little boost? Read some facts about tobacco to help you reconnect with the reasons that convinced you to butt out in the first place.

 
 

Fears that undermine your motivation

Sometimes, semi-conscious fears lurk behind a decline in motivation. Try to uncover your fears and find ways to combat them. For example:

  • Do you fear “losing” something by quitting smoking? If this is the case, try to think about everything you have gained thanks for your smoke-free life.
  • Are you afraid of failing? Remember that the ONLY REAL FAILURE IS FAILING TO TRY.
  • Fear of gaining weight? Fear of…
 
 

On-line community

You’re not the only one who’s experiencing highs and lows. Come chat with others and see what they have to say:

For personalized advice, call 1-866-527-7383 or visit the Quit Smoking Centre in your region (page available in French).

 

Have a great week!

The Quit to Win! Challenge team
www.quitchallenge.ca

 
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